Saturday, May 29, 2004

Update from Lori: No. 41 : More good news

Dear Friends and Family,

I'm passing on Lori's update as she explains the wonderful meeting we had with Gerry's therapy team. What an encouragment to see their excitement over Gerry's progress. We are so blessed to have all of your prayers and support!

Gina


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From Lori:

Gerry's sister Carla came to town today and the family met with the therapy team. It's official, Gerry is out of the coma! He is responding to enough outside stimulus. Now we are looking for increased and more consistent responses. An added blessing is that Anessa had been praying that her dad would wake up before her birthday May 29th and God answered her prayer.

Every day, Gerry does something a little more during therapy. He continues to say "hi" to his therapists, shaking their hands, resisting back and balancing when being pushed while sitting, catching a ball on his lap, going outside in the wheel chair, and best of all for me is he continues to smile at our silly jokes. We still don't know the extent of brain injury as he is
continuing through the healing process. Continue to pray that he will progress and not plateau or have any medical set backs.

He is doing about 2-3 hours a therapy a day and working hard as muscles need to be strengthened because he has been in bed so long without activity. When given a command like raise your head, you can see him struggle to perform, but if you then physically touch his head he responds right away. They are working on the process of understanding and responding just to the verbal command.

Also encouraging is the validation that he can see and is anticipating, like when he moves his legs away before you can tickle his feet. They are also working on his swallowing reflex getting him to the point he can eat.

In the near future when Gerry can tolerate 3-4 hours a therapy a day and is medically stable, he will need to be moved to an acute therapy rehab center. I would prefer one that specializes in brain injury. Pray for wisdom and guidance as to the best location and agreement with the insurance company. We are told of programs in Pomona and Bakersfield that we are looking into and I am still researching San Diego locations. Distance is a factor, but we also would like the best treatment possible.

I marvel when thinking back over the last 2 1/2 months. When Ger first went to the ER, we were told he had less than 20% chance of survival, and then we were told less than 10% chance of emerging from a coma from this type of brain injury. What I know is that God is God over the odds. He is powerful to heal!

The verse Dr. Machado shared has been our comfort:
"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." Is. 41:10

I can't wait for Ger to express how the gentleness of God has upheld him during this struggle. God's promises are sweet and sure. God is with Gerry.

Lori

Wednesday, May 26, 2004

Two encouraging pieces of news from Lori

Some really encouraging bits of news. Here's the first, dated May 19:

Subject: Marinucci No. 39 Laughing

Laughter truly is the best medicine!

Tonight, Sandi and Eric Churchill met Edie and I at the hospital. Ger was awake when we arrived but rather sluggish in his movements. About 1/2 hour into our visit, followed by tempting him with chocolate brownies, Eric started telling Ger silly jokes and goofing around (uniquely Eric style). Gradually, Ger began to smile, which turned into laughter. He did not laugh out loud because the plug was not in his trach at the time, but he was genuinely laughing. Big grin, squinty eyes, chest heaving, etc. He was really cracking up. Most importantly, he laughed when it was funny and smirked while "saying oh, you can do better than that!" It felt like he was really there, listening and laughing at appropriate times. It was incredible!

Other firsts: the laughing brought on a coughing spell and he would lift his hand to his mouth so as to cover his mouth. He crossed his ankles and legs while in bed and when he reached his hand up, the nurse continued to lift his hand to his face and he scratched his nose.

I know many, many have prayed specifically to hear Ger's boisterous laugh again. I did not audibly hear it, but I experienced it! Praise God for his goodness and mercy in answering prayer.

"A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones." Proverbs 15:30

Lori

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And the second, dated May 20:

Today (Thursday, May 20) during therapy, Gerry said three words through the valve in his trach: "hi, yes and no." The staff was ecstatic and so are we. He has been able to handle the trach plug for more that 8 hours at a time and at this rate he could have the trach out in several weeks. God is so merciful.

Gerry is not "awake" yet and in still considered in a coma, but is definitely in the process of emerging. He is much more alert and we are seeing more consistent and purposeful movement. These are important steps!

At tonight's visit we witnessed him scratching his face, lifting his legs up off the bed and making noise while yawning. Interestingly enough he also smiled when I referenced one of the jokes that Eric told two nights ago... I believe he remembered!

Visitors are still welcome and encouraged. I'm told this is a
very important aspect of his therapy.

Continue to pray on my faithful prayer warriors! God is the great physician and is knitting him back together. God is doing above and beyond what I think or ask! Praise Him.

Lovingly, Lori

Sunday, May 23, 2004

Community pitches in to help Lori

Lori's neighbors in Murietta pitched in this weekend with garage sales to help out Lori and the kids. Here's a link to a story from the Riverside Press-Enterprise (subscription required). The story also has a nice picture of Gerry and an update on his condition.

steve

Sunday, May 16, 2004

May 16: Gerry's progress. ... from Gina

5/16/04

Dear Family & Friends,

This week we were happy that they unwired Gerry's jaw. Speech therapy has begun with the use of a "pmv", a valve that enables us to hear Gerr make sounds, cough, and eventually talk. They begin using the pmv in small increments to get him used to it, as it is a bit more difficult to breath with it on. They will increase the time with the pmv as he is able to tolerate until he can handle it for 8 hours a day for about a week. They will then cap off the trach for 3-5 days to see how he does. It is our understanding that if all continues to go well, within approximately 3 weeks the doctors will be able to remove the trach entirely!
The doctors, nurses and therapists continue to be very hopeful about Gerry's progress, saying that he is trying to break through. Lori met with the neuro for the first time, and was encouraged. The neuro explained that Gerry is responding to some advanced commands, for example, when the nurses ask him to lift his head so they can put a pillow under it, he does! This is very good! He did explain that Gerry is exhibiting what they observe in some stroke patients, which is an effect of his brain injury. This is that when they scratch the bottom of one of his feet, his big toe lifts up. They have put him on the medicine they use for Parkinsons patients to try to stimulate him to emerge from the coma. We are very impressed with the agressive treatment Gerry is receiving from the doctors and therapists, and continue to pray for them as well. We have noticed in the past two days that Gerry has been much less active, and looking very tired. All his vitals are good, etc., but we are wondering if maybe this new regimin of medicines may possibly be making him more lethargic. If it continues, we'll ask the doctors if this is a possibility. Please pray for his continued progress, and for the strength he needs to fight.
We are so grateful for those of you who live locally who have been able to visit Gerry. We've gotten many questions from visitors and also through email about comas and Gerry's condition. I have cut and pasted some very helpful info I got from a wonderful coma recovery website (http://waiting.com) that my sister found online. It is for people who have loved ones in a coma. The info is following, and I hope it is helpful for those of you who are interested to read it. We deeply appreciate all of your interest, concern, prayers and support. And we thank you for your continued prayers that Gerry would emerge from the coma! God Bless!

Gina
O Sovereign LORD! You have made the heavens and earth by your great power. Nothing is too hard for you! Jeremiah 32:17



About Brain Injury:

Understanding Coma


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Coma is a prolonged period of unconsciousness. Unconsciousness is the lack of appreciation of (or reaction to) a stimulus. Coma differs from sleep in that one cannot be aroused from a coma.

Coma involves two different concepts:

1.) Reactivity: Reactivity refers to the innate (or inborn) functions of the brain, i.e., the telereceptors (eyes and ears), the nociceptors (responses to pain), the arousal reaction (wakefulness) and the orienting response (turning one's head toward the source of sound or movement). We could also refer to these as reflexive movements.

2.) Perceptivity: Perceptivity refers to the responses of the nervous system to stimuli, which have been learned or acquired, i.e., language, communication skills, individual methods of movement such as gestures, etc. Perceptivity also refers to less complex learned or acquired reactions such as flinching when threatened. We can also think of these as conscious movements.

A person in a coma does not exhibit reactivity or perceptivity. He/she can not be aroused by calling his/her name or in response to pain.

As a person begins to emerge from a coma, they may begin to react to certain stimuli. To regain "consciousness" however, reactivity and perceptivity must both be present. These two elements are necessary for a state of awareness. Often, many of the elements of perceptivity must be relearned, such as speech, self-care, etc.

Many people are surprised that all stages of coma do not resemble what we have been taught to expect; a deep sleep. The person in the coma may exhibit movement, make sounds, and experience agitation. It is important to keep in mind that the coma patient may exhibit reflex activities which mimic conscious activities. Coma patients may be restrained to keep them from removing tubes or dislodging IVs. The progress of coma is measured by the patient's increasing awareness of external stimuli. There are many levels of coma which the patient will pass through as functionality increases.

Sometimes a coma is induced by chemical means to aid in medical treatment and recovery.

It is very important to remember to speak positively to and in the presence of the person in a coma. Some patients remember very distinctly events while they were in a coma. Studies also show that a positive attitude may be beneficial to the recovery of the patient. Conversations about the possible negative outcomes with doctors, nurses, and family should be conducted with discretion.

When will we know the extent of the injury?

When the patient "wakes up."

"But 'waking up' is a slow process of what we call 'emerging.' The first part of the waking up process is when the eyes open and they have wake/sleep cycles, the sleep cycles being the longest. As the wake cycles get longer and longer, movement begins to occur; then speech; then purposeful movement; reaching for things, making things work -- purposeful speech -- asking questions.

Arms and legs are the first things to move; then the head, from side to side. Speech begins with moaning, then moves on to mumbling, and happens more often when lying in bed." ~ Martha

Remember: No two brain injuries are alike.

It should be remembered that sometimes, while a patient is in a coma, they may exhibit behaviors which mimic conscious behaviors. For instance, they may turn their head toward a sound. This may or may not be a purposeful movement.

I can not stress enough that coma is often not what we imagine. No two patients are the same. Some will display movement and sounds throughout the comatose period, some may need to be restrained to prevent injury to themselves or others. It is best to view these behaviors realistically. This is the hard truth about coma; we do not know if or how well any particular patient will recover. But coma is rarely like it is portrayed in movies and on television, where one day the patient opens their eyes, smiles, and is discharged the next day. Recovery from brain injury takes time.

The brain is very complex. Even in the event of a "mild" brain injury, when there is no loss of consciousness, people often experience long term problems with memory, fatigue, concentration, anger, dizziness, etc. These problems may never be resolved and may require lifetime coping strategies.

Even in the event that the patient recovers quickly, it may take years to fully understand the extent of the injuries. If they are able to return to work, they may do an adequate job until faced with a new task. They may have deficits that will not be obvious until faced with a new or different situation or environment. These "subtle" deficits may be harder to find help for than more obvious deficits.

That is why you must be informed about brain injury. And why it is important to develop support systems now. You must be prepared for an injury which is permanent, as hard as that sounds. Information is your best option for dealing with brain injury.


Friday, May 14, 2004

May 13: From Lori

Today I received exciting news! (Wed, 5/12) About 4:00 a.m. this morning, Gerry lifted
his head, back and raised up on his elbows, attempting to swing his leg
around like he was trying to get up out of bed. The nurses quickly assisted him in
grabbing for the side rails, he held on but didn't continue to pull up.
They consider this purposeful movement! Interestingly, Ger usually awoke every
morning about 4:00 a.m. The nurses will play the CD that acted as his alarm
clock tomorrow morning.

Also, he responded by moving his head in the direction of his name being
called out across the room. This is important because it signals that he is
listening and sorting the various peripheral noises in the unit and
identifying specifically his name. He sat up in the chair for over an hour today and
lifted his hand to touch his face. While sitting, he constantly is working muscles
struggling to stay erect. His chin still drops, but his neck seems to be
getting stronger every day. He is working hard.

A dentist is scheduled to come soon to remove the wired jaw. The speech
therapy department is eager to begin working with him.

My girls are being well loved! Many friends and family have been faithfully
watching them while I'm at work and at the hospital. This Sunday Polina and
Tatiana will be baptized. This is something that we had planned prior to
the accident, and I believe Ger would desire we continue on to do so now, rather
than wait. Today I was blessed by our homeschool youth group who came today
to clean house and do yard work.

Finally, a dear neighbor of mine has asked for prayer for her 22 year old
niece who has a large tumor that has caused a lot of difficulties for her
heart and she has a collapsed lung. This young home schooled, Christian woman's
name is Lydia Rose. May the Lord be as close to her and her family as he has
been to me (and I know Gerry) during our time of need.

Rejoice in the Lord always, again I say Rejoice! Phil 4:4

Love, Lori

Monday, May 10, 2004

May 9: Gerry's progress continued ... from Gina

Gerry last Thanksgiving
at Big Bear Lake, CA.


5/9/04 9:40 p.m.

Dear Friends & Family,

First of all, Happy Mother's Day! I hope all of you enjoyed a wonderful day!

Our praise reports continue! Gerry continues to get stronger every day! Today we found out that he is officially "off the vent"! He's been breathing entirely on his own for the last two nights and doing great, so they took the vent out of his room. We are praying that he continues to get stronger in all areas. The next step is to remove the trach which will happen when they are entirely sure he can clear his own airway if necessary. And also after he builds up his strength and they feel he is consistently strong in his breathing. This is something they won't rush into, and we are so grateful for the doctor's great care and work to wean Gerr off the vent!

It has been about 5 weeks since Gerry's mouth was wired shut. We were told at Riverside that it would be wired for 4-6 weeks, so Gerry's primary doctor at Kindred is checking to see if we are able to remove those wires yet. We're hoping they will be removed soon which will allow the therapists to move forward with speech therapy. Physical therapy and coma stimulation therapy continue to go well.
Gerry continues to tolerate sitting up for periods of time, and is handling keeping his head up for 10-15 seconds or so at a time. He also continues to react well to smells, turning away from strong scents like ammonia and turning towards more appealing scents like mint. We are so excited to see his periods of alert time increasing and are noticing some increase in facial expressions. He still has much movement in his legs and feet, and also in his arms and hands. He seems hyper-sensitive (like he's really ticklish, which Lori said he never was to that extent) to touch on his feet, and we are told that sensitivity is increased at this stage of his progress. All of this is very exciting as we literally see changes in Gerry almost daily, and certainly weekly. Praise God!

We continue to pray and ask for your prayers that Gerry's progress continues and that he will "break through" and emerge from the coma. Thank you all and God Bless!

Gina

Friday, May 07, 2004

Hit-and-run driver sentenced

This article dated May 7 in the North County Times in Riverside County, Calif., gives details of the hearing for the sentencing of the person whose vehicle hit Gerry. The article has some quotes from family members on how Gerry is doing.

Wednesday, May 05, 2004

No. 35, 5/5/04, from Lori

Passing on the update from Lori...a wonderful praise report!
Thank you for your continued prayers!
Gina

Sent: Wednesday, May 05, 2004 7:47 AM
Subject: Marinucci No. 35


10:45 p.m. Tues 5/4- God is truly answering prayer! I met with the doctor
and he was very impressed by the recent progress and activity.

Gerry is consistently growing stronger and exhibiting more movement every
day! He is increasing in leg movements especially during stimulation,
however, he readily moves his legs now. His eyes are open more often and for a
longer period of time. He opens his eyes when his name is called and is beginning
to track to voices, moving his head toward the voice. He even did this for the
doctor tonight who was marveling at his progress. The doctor believes "his
brain is healing and neurons are beginning to fire" which is a positive step
towards emerging. He thinks Gerry is trying to break through. Please
continue to pray specifically that he will come out of the coma. Many other therapy
options and diagnostic tools are available once he is out of the coma.

He is breathing on his own without the assistance of the ventilator during
the day and has some minor support for a few hours at night in order to rest
his body. He has as strong cough which is important for him to be able to
protect his airway. The pulmanologist stated he just needs to get stronger.

He continues with coma stimulation therapy and was upright in a chair for
almost an hour today. He was able to hold his head at mid-line for 20
seconds. He continues to react to strong smells and is having stronger arm movements
during physical therapy.

Ger had a slight fever and they put him on 3 different antibiotics hoping
to catch whatever bug he might. Please also pray for this concern.

The new routine has not been easy on anyone, but it is finally beginning to
feel like a routine. The girls are staying with and schooling with dear
friends for several days in order for me to work and various families are watching
them on Saturdays on a rotating basis. I am thankful for such willing and
loving support.

My devotion for today: "Thou has made the heavens and the earth by thy
great power and stretched out arm, there is nothing too hard for Thee - Who
delivered us from so great a death; in whom we trust that He will yet
deliver us. Shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto him?"

Lori